Bris/Brit Milah & Simchat Bat

The arrival of a new baby is cause for great celebration and joy. At the DJC, we bring special warmth and care to helping families welcome their children into the circle of Jewish community.

Traditionally, on the eighth day of a Jewish baby boy’s life he is welcomed into the Jewish community through the ritual of brit milah, also known as a bris (the sign of the covenant/ circumcision). This is also when a Jewish boy is traditionally given his Hebrew name.

The ritual for welcoming baby girls into the covenant and community is known as a simchat bat (rejoicing for a daughter), when she also receives her Hebrew name.  Creative contemporary rituals mark this significant and joyous moment. Some families choose to have an intimate gathering for the brit milah and to hold a communal simchat ben (rejoicing for a son) celebration.

Parents are also encouraged to be called to the Torah for an aliyah with a new baby during Shabbat morning service.  The baby is blessed and the entire DJC community welcomes this young one into our midst.

As these Jewish rituals grow and evolve, we’re delighted to explore the possibilities with you.

Planning a Bris or Simchat Bat? Rabbi Miriam is available to officiate and is happy to recommend the right mohel (male) or mohelet (female) to perform your son’s bris, including those who are sensitive to the needs of same-sex, interfaith, or intercultural families. Reach out to Rabbi Miriam to learn more.